Friday, 23 November 2007

Staying under one roof is a GREAT KNOWLEDGE

How well do you know the friend who you declare as your closet friend? How well do you really understand what their real attitude is? You will never know until you stay with them. Then, you'll slowly find out how their day-to-day life would be, and how they actually act.

There would be a little problems if you stay with ONE of your friend. But, can you imagine how's the life would be to stay with SEVEN friends which came from different family background? Which their standard of living are way much different than yours?

It's actually a great great knowledge and experience to gain and throughout the day, you could learn a lot either their family's lifestyle, their own way of doing things, and etc. I've learnt some lessons and interesting ways of doing things. Among these:-
  • Never bath longer than 15minutes, as it's not nice to keep others waiting
  • make sure you set a good example to start doing the house chores, so others would not have the chance to pin point you
  • separate your food and daily product if possible with your name on it, so it won run out so easily T_T
  • inform your housemate either writing on the whiteboard, or call them if you are not coming home for dinner. This is to prevent them from doing so much and for you to waste the food.
  • always bear in mind that you are not staying with your family members, make sure you don't expect others would understand what is on your mind. Voice out if you face any problem
  • You are staying away from home ALONE, never expect you would have accompanion throughout the year. It's inevitable that you could be alone at times. But, it's not a depressing thing. You just need time to get used to it.
  • The weather is cold, you should wear more layers of clothes instead of switching on the heater all day. You do not wish to spend all your money by paying the bills and debts.
  • Try not to eat or cook alone, you do not wish to know how much dearly for that compared to sharing.
  • Learn how to forgive and forget, this is the toughest one to achieve, but it's the great thing to learn.
  • Try to concern about others feeling instead of being selfish. Remember that everyone is away from their own country.
  • Try to smile and keep away your frowning face. You do not wish others to on their "anti-walls" just to prevent from getting scold. Unless, you share. There would always be someone who willing to listen and give you advice.

These are something interesting which I have found out during the stay. But no offence, it's just my own way of thinking. It doesnt mean I have any hard feeling on anyone nor hattress to anybody.

Honestly speaking, I feel blessed and happy to have this golden chance to experience my life here with all of my beloved housemates. throughout the stay, we faced a lot of difficulties and problems, unhappiness and misunderstandings. but it is not a big deal. the most important part is that we have learnt from the lesson and trying to be better in the future. you can tell from the way they act, and from their faces. they are giving their best to be better and make sure they do not hurt anyone's feeling accidentally. This is really something to appreciate.

And GUYS!!! I love you heaps!! HUgz!! may our friendship long lasting!!

Thursday, 22 November 2007

I just DON'T feel like telling ...

Most of my friends just like to ask me the same old questions like "hey! how's life there? Get to know any leng chai ? how's your school? are you enjoying your new life?" etc..

Then.. I would go like ." Oh, so far so good.. Nah! No leng chai.. My school?still fine.. Enjoying life? Hmm.. kinda.."

To be honest, I was just lazy to explain how I actually feel and what I have gone through. Sometimes, it's just hard to tell someone what's exactly that happened. Maybe you might be willing to share with them for the first few times, then slowly you'll started to be so annoying to answer the same old questions, then slowly you would just ignore and pretend that you did not hear what they have asked you or to be worst, you would just PRETEND you went DISCONNECTED.

Not that I am fussy to answer all those questions, it's hard to express your true feeling using words nor verbally. Not everyone is really paying full attention for what you're telling, isn't it?

There was a time, where I was so desperate to tell one of my friend about my life here in UK. It was fine at first, and he actually paying attention as he replied quite fast. Slowly, you would find that he has became a laggar where it took him ages to reply you. Next thing was, he would just tell you, "Hey, sorry, gtg.. catch up with you again nx time ya! you take care ok.. BYE!"

My side:
What the... I am still telling here..

His side:
I'm just too smart to take that move.. YES!!

He just don't realise it's so obvious to me. HEy! Girls are sensitive species..!

To summarize all, I just don't feel like telling how's my life doing now. ERmm.. as I really don't know where should I start. You know, most of them don't really know what they really want to know. They're just asking in terms of starting off a topic, or telling they're boring, or letting you know they realised your absent, or laughing at you because you don't have roti canai to eat anymore. (I miss roti canai .. OBoY!)

Therefore, to make things easy, I finally signed up blogspot AGAIN, to actually REALLY use it wisely and directly tell all my fellow friends how my life is being now. I will slowly update my blog whenever I thought of sharing something about my past experiences, or some funny things I went through, or just nagging and complaining for the sake to release my stress.. haha..

I hope my blog is good enough to let you guys know how I am now. Of course, how I miss you all so so so Much and miss Malaysia's food.. (Yea! the only thing I miss about Malaysia.. the food.. )

Wednesday, 21 November 2007

Just a Normal way to start off....

This is me.. the so called "piggy" which is well-known among my friends. EHEHmm.. I am partly ordinary girl like others and partly abnormal according to my friends. Some of them insist that I'm not a girl but a boy. WHY?

Yea! Just because I talk and laugh a bit loud at times. *pathetic me*

Well, who am I? I'm an ordinary girl. A girl who loves to sleep a lot. (who doesn't) Who's fond of singing, dancing, playing online games, playing piano and organ, etc which none of them I can accomplish successfully. That's right! I give up halfway most of the time due to laziness. *tsk tsk*


Why am I doing in blogger? Of course is for blogging sake. *eye-rolling* Here, I'll try my very best to learn how to express my vapidity day-to-day activities(I hope) using my pathetic poor english writting skills to all my dear reader. (as if I have any.. Surprise! Surprise! )


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